"Your credit card seems to have declined Sir."- muttered the counter lady.
"Would you have another?"
So, this happened. Two days only from today, I dogged outside to walk by the grocery store next to my residence in Noida. I am saying dogged because when you're home alone, you are generally in a fatigued head out of nothing and it takes all the guts to re-assemble your bones and persuade them to take your soul on an outing before your flatmates type-in 'Irresponsible' on the WhatsappChat. So, yeah, it was my turn to go family shopping that evening.
I Hate It.
"I am doing it only for you."- I said, holding a packet of Penne Pasta in my hands. Not in my head, I really said it loud.
After I was done shopping, pretty much with everything in my basket (And, I am pro at making good enough excuses for the stuff I usually forget), I moved towards the billing counter which had a queue of about 4-5 shoppers. After sliding myself to the end of it and keeping my heavy basket to the ground, I began to check out the chocolate rack which is usually placed around the billing counter.
Disclaimer: Lalit shouldn't be kept waiting near the chocolate bars, or else, it only multiplies his grocery amount.
5-7 minutes of waiting resulted into one of the most intense conversations and nostalgia of all the time. Wait, I am telling you what happened.
Just when I came as close as second in the queue to get my groceries paid, I couldn't help but tuned in to the chat exchange between the counter lady and the man who stood ahead of me. Now, this person, if I had to go by his looks, was an Army man in his early 40s (wearing a military jacket with the name plate on it and a very mucky trouser) trying to shop for some good food and baby products for home (I did wonder, why he couldn't shop all that from an Army canteen where he could have afforded it all at non-taxable costs.).
By the way, their chat emerged something like this-
Counter Lady- "Your credit card seems to have declined Sir. Do you have any other?"
Army Personnel- "I am afraid I don't."
CL- "Would you like to try cash to make the payment, Sir?"
AP- "Yes, sure. How much?"
CL- "The total is Rs. 1829"
AP- (He looked into his wallet for cash and became clear that he was short, after juggling between his wallet pockets) "I have around Rs. 1260 in cash. How much is the total excluding the diapers?"
CL- (after carting out the diapers from her computer screen) "Rs. 1380"
AP- "Please exclude the milk cartons too. How much, then?" (He was totally, calculating)
CL- "Now, Sir, it's Rs.1230."
AP- "I don't think I can afford the diapers and milk in cash right now. Bill me the rest of it."
I could totally figure out embarrassment and disappointment on the Personnel's face. He seemed to be very helpless. On the other hand, our queue was only adding in number.
"Excuse me!"- My inner-self jumped right into the middle of the scene. "How much is the total of both, if I can know?"- I asked breaking the queue and coming in the front.
Until this point, I didn't even look at the Army Person and was looking straight at the lady behind the counter.
CL- "It's Rs.449 + 150 = Rs.599 in total for only these two."
"I will take that. Please add that up to my bill. Let him have the diapers and milk"- I voiced in a soft pitch, smiling at the Army personnel who looked startled. He didn't take a second to say- "Are you really sure, young man, because 600 is too much?"
I, for almost, expected that line of formality by the Army Person (since I come from a very identical background) and, hence, I was ready with an answer.
"I really appreciate your service, Sir. And, believe me, I work hard enough to atleast afford this much. So, there are no worries at all."- I said grinning at him.
"It is my pleasure, and thank you very much young man"- said his unsettled reddened face.
He paid his cash, just after this conversation. And, the lady in-charge started to pack all the products for the man before it was my turn.
"I will be honest, I am going through a very hard time right now, and my credit card seems to have given up too." He said, sarcastically smiling at me.
"I can totally relate. At some point or the other, we all go through hard times. You'll surely deal it with grace, Sir, one day at a time."
"May god bless you, Beta"- The only informal word-of-mouth I got to hear from him.
"Thanks. Nice to meet you."- Smiled again.
He left just after that. It was such an amazing experience to have. When I said- "I can totally relate", I wanted to say so much but simply couldn't due to shortage of time and space. But, now that I am penning it all down, I can atleast tell you about how I could relate to all this.
Being born in a family where death news arrives not in notice but in the television headlines, is never easy. I have seen a lot of 'woman from the family faint right after she over-hears her husband's name on a news channel' cases. I have known cases where Diwali crackers came in-hand, in the month of March when the son of a longing mother arrives after 3 years of guarding the borders. I know families where the mother asks the son to prepare for defense services in order to take over from where his elder brother, who's no more, left. But, one thing that has remained constant at the end of all of this is-
That's where my biggest lesson in life comes from. And, I realised it only when I quoted the Army personnel- "One day at a time". Believe me, the day you understand how much of time does these 24 hours or 1440 minutes or 86000 seconds offer, you will have your entire life changed the next moment. There are 86000 seconds of opportunities passing by you everyday, you have to stand up for what you love doing and do it with utmost passion and dedication. And, that's all.
That was my one good deed for the day. I have a plan- Let's make a habit of doing one good deed a day to get a smile in a return. You don't have to be helping in money all the time. Just help a stray dog cross the road, or take your sibling on a fun ride out of nowhere and nothing. Gift your Mom the haircut she wants on you (just kidding on this one, mine got me bald very recently) or help your Dad with work or do whatever you can get a smile in return for. Simple!
We're collecting smiles, remember! ❤️
Now, let me begin with you- Did you enjoy reading this?
Just when I came as close as second in the queue to get my groceries paid, I couldn't help but tuned in to the chat exchange between the counter lady and the man who stood ahead of me. Now, this person, if I had to go by his looks, was an Army man in his early 40s (wearing a military jacket with the name plate on it and a very mucky trouser) trying to shop for some good food and baby products for home (I did wonder, why he couldn't shop all that from an Army canteen where he could have afforded it all at non-taxable costs.).
By the way, their chat emerged something like this-
Counter Lady- "Your credit card seems to have declined Sir. Do you have any other?"
Army Personnel- "I am afraid I don't."
CL- "Would you like to try cash to make the payment, Sir?"
AP- "Yes, sure. How much?"
CL- "The total is Rs. 1829"
AP- (He looked into his wallet for cash and became clear that he was short, after juggling between his wallet pockets) "I have around Rs. 1260 in cash. How much is the total excluding the diapers?"
CL- (after carting out the diapers from her computer screen) "Rs. 1380"
AP- "Please exclude the milk cartons too. How much, then?" (He was totally, calculating)
CL- "Now, Sir, it's Rs.1230."
AP- "I don't think I can afford the diapers and milk in cash right now. Bill me the rest of it."
I could totally figure out embarrassment and disappointment on the Personnel's face. He seemed to be very helpless. On the other hand, our queue was only adding in number.
"Excuse me!"- My inner-self jumped right into the middle of the scene. "How much is the total of both, if I can know?"- I asked breaking the queue and coming in the front.
Until this point, I didn't even look at the Army Person and was looking straight at the lady behind the counter.
CL- "It's Rs.449 + 150 = Rs.599 in total for only these two."
"I will take that. Please add that up to my bill. Let him have the diapers and milk"- I voiced in a soft pitch, smiling at the Army personnel who looked startled. He didn't take a second to say- "Are you really sure, young man, because 600 is too much?"
I, for almost, expected that line of formality by the Army Person (since I come from a very identical background) and, hence, I was ready with an answer.
"I really appreciate your service, Sir. And, believe me, I work hard enough to atleast afford this much. So, there are no worries at all."- I said grinning at him.
"It is my pleasure, and thank you very much young man"- said his unsettled reddened face.
He paid his cash, just after this conversation. And, the lady in-charge started to pack all the products for the man before it was my turn.
"I will be honest, I am going through a very hard time right now, and my credit card seems to have given up too." He said, sarcastically smiling at me.
"I can totally relate. At some point or the other, we all go through hard times. You'll surely deal it with grace, Sir, one day at a time."
"May god bless you, Beta"- The only informal word-of-mouth I got to hear from him.
"Thanks. Nice to meet you."- Smiled again.
He left just after that. It was such an amazing experience to have. When I said- "I can totally relate", I wanted to say so much but simply couldn't due to shortage of time and space. But, now that I am penning it all down, I can atleast tell you about how I could relate to all this.
Being born in a family where death news arrives not in notice but in the television headlines, is never easy. I have seen a lot of 'woman from the family faint right after she over-hears her husband's name on a news channel' cases. I have known cases where Diwali crackers came in-hand, in the month of March when the son of a longing mother arrives after 3 years of guarding the borders. I know families where the mother asks the son to prepare for defense services in order to take over from where his elder brother, who's no more, left. But, one thing that has remained constant at the end of all of this is-
A new dawn is on its way to the horizon! ❤️
That's where my biggest lesson in life comes from. And, I realised it only when I quoted the Army personnel- "One day at a time". Believe me, the day you understand how much of time does these 24 hours or 1440 minutes or 86000 seconds offer, you will have your entire life changed the next moment. There are 86000 seconds of opportunities passing by you everyday, you have to stand up for what you love doing and do it with utmost passion and dedication. And, that's all.
That was my one good deed for the day. I have a plan- Let's make a habit of doing one good deed a day to get a smile in a return. You don't have to be helping in money all the time. Just help a stray dog cross the road, or take your sibling on a fun ride out of nowhere and nothing. Gift your Mom the haircut she wants on you (just kidding on this one, mine got me bald very recently) or help your Dad with work or do whatever you can get a smile in return for. Simple!
We're collecting smiles, remember! ❤️
Now, let me begin with you- Did you enjoy reading this?

1. Yes, I very much enjoyed reading thia.
ReplyDelete2. I am happy that you have decided to spread smiles because that's all that matters eventually.
3. I watched a video sent by paa on whatsapp today (you know how he turns too excited and want us to watch it first) and laughed genuinely at it. Will this be counted or ahould I talk to Naman with respect for an hour? (Just kidding).
Your kindness and that'gentlemen'nature of yours is something I admire the most. Stay the way you are.
PS: Vaise tujhse anjaano se baat karne me zindagi bhar ki sharm aati hai, aise ache kaam fir bhi karjata hai. Hai kya tu, bata hi de? ❤️😘
1. I am glad to have collected one Smile, atleast.
Delete2. Yeah, that's the goal of life. To collect the most amount of smiles and laughters possible. Kindness is the key.
3. You certainly did, as I am sure, your Dad must have felt very good after that. Also, you can keep the 'brother thing' scheduled for some other day.
And, I will remain the same, always. Have managed to survive until today. I am sure, I can do it for as longer as my last breath for sure! :)
About the PS: I am weird. Can't help. :)
Nice one bro :) , I do the same but it's quite difficult for me to pen it down( you know why ;) . Hope your blog reaches maximum views and bring some change
ReplyDeleteIf humanity learns this , it will survive :)
That's one of the modest comments of all. It's the people around me who I learn from. We're all each other's companions for Humanity's sake and I'm glad I have you as one of them. Thanks for praising my experience. :)
DeleteLoved the way you narrated this.
ReplyDeleteThank you Dishu. I have a feeling I know you but this name seems unknown. May I know the person behind the lovely comment?
DeleteThank you, anyway! :)
Loved the way you narrated!
ReplyDeleteThanks once again! ^_^
DeleteVery well written. Keep up the good work :) :)
ReplyDeleteThank you Neha. I am glad you read it. Thanks for letting my work reach Swindon, UK. I miss you! :)
DeleteReally thoughtful Lalit, loved reading it.Sends a strong message.:)
ReplyDeleteThank you Swaamu! I miss you here in India. Please come back soon. It would be great to share more such experiences in person. :)
DeleteYour writting is beautiful and you have a beautiful mind. :)
ReplyDeleteHahaha! I wonder, what beautiful mind really means because dirty as hell. But, I know what you exactly mean, joking apart. Thank you so much on the appreciation. Coming from a beautiful and soft girl like you means a lot re! ^_^
DeleteYou're such an amazing person (and I'm not saying this after just this post). You find something good in everything and you keep the goodness alive. Never, ever, lose the ability to feel and express things the way you do.
ReplyDeleteI'm learning from you and am turning back into the person I used to be. There couldn't be a better gift. Thank you. I'm glad to have read this post. ❤️
It was not very long ago when I was wondering whether you read this one or not. Honestly, I was very privileged to having walk across an opportunity to offer some help. And, I personally believe, as together, we can make 'good' the enemy of 'Great'. And you, I am sure, are one from the team. Thank you for reading up! <3
DeleteIndeed it was nicely narrated and your act defines your pure soul. Happy to read this.. Thanks mate :)
ReplyDeleteYes, I enjoyed reading it because it touched my heart.
ReplyDeleteI hope more and more lalit bhandari’s are born in this world, where people only care about themselves and their safety and dosen’t feel the pain of our soldiers.
I hope more and more people read this.♥️